Exquisite life lessons are frequently to do with my friendships and acquaintances these days.
It appears I’m in a transition period and, as a result, I have some decisions to make about some of my friendships.
So much has shifted in my life over the past few years that my friendships are shifting as well. With the country going through so many raw emotions now it’s easy to get into the habit of being upset, feeling hopeless, and seeing the negative. But those are not emotions I want to cultivate. I get it, something very upsetting happens and we go to fear, seeing the worst in everything, feeling dread and waiting for the worst to happen. However, I believe that feeling hopeless and anger offers the world or me nothing of benefit. It offers only struggle. Instead, I choose to see the possibilities.
I choose to create what I desire. As I’m creating positive, I’m experiencing more positive things in my life. Until I stumble. Then I try again and succeed. It’s a dance that I’m getting better at. And, when I look back, I see a direct correlation between when I began to choose to look to myself to create something better, and when positive experiences began to show up for me. So I’m not budging because this is working really, really, well for me.
I can relate! I hold on to some friendships just because they are some of my oldest and that’s fearing to my heart but they lack growth. So I wonder sometimes… but lessons are found in all places. Wonderful post!!
I wasn’t sure I should put all that out there as I was in the middle of working it all out, so your comment is much appreciated.